The other day I hinted about a hike we did in Zion where we scrambled down a hillside with J-Man. Here’s a recap of that hike.
Bedge is notorious for finding locations to visit that are off the beaten path. As a photographer he is always looking for places that are unknown to most people and that are photogenic. A lot of the time Bedge will venture out on his own to these unknown locations to scout them out, see if they are do-able with J-Man and to see if they are photogenic. I’ve learned my lesson about going on these scouting trips with Bedge. They can take forever trying to find the particular location or we could get lost up on a plateau at dusk with J-Man on my back. I’m not fond of those particular trips.
Since we were in Zion for a family trip I decided that all 3 of us would go looking for a specific slot canyon that Bedge wanted to possibly photograph. I say possibly because he wasn’t sure the conditions would be right.
This slot canyon is not known to many people and park rangers are pretty hush about it. You need to know the slot canyon by name for the rangers to give you directions. I guess enough people ask about it though because they had a 1/4 page print out of directions for it.
Bedge got the print out and drove us to the starting point. Let me preface that a lot of these scouting trips are not on designated trails, so we have to do route finding on our own. There are usually no GPS coordinates, it’s all by written directions. These directions for this particular hike were just a couple black and white pictures of the area with dotted lines pointing to the destination.
We all donned our packs, cameras and excitement and headed in the direction of the dotted line.
We dropped down the side of the road into a wash and a few feet later started hiking up a slickrock hillside. According to the dotted lines we needed to make it to the top of the pictured hillside. Super easy, as it was a gradual climb and a beautiful day.
UP the hill we go.
Almost to the top.
We made it to the top of the hill only to be met with a downward climb. Not just a gradual or easy downward climb, but a S T E E P slope where if you fell you would be seriously injured or killed.
We stood at the top pondering if we should attempt to go down with J-Man. If it was only me and Bedge there would have been no second thoughts. We would have motored down. J-man on the other hand adds a completely different element to our hiking abilities and the choices we make.
I stood at the top of the slope for a bit checking out each foot and hand placement and how we could do it safely with J-Man or would it be absurd to attempt.
I’m pretty confident in my abilities to climb and scramble down slopes but could I do it with J-Man? Do I have the strength to hold onto him the whole time, the balance to keep us both in place and the mental capacity to not freak out and take it slowly?
I saw the route we would take, the location of each step and where J-Man would be positioned on the way down.
The entire time Bedge kept offering to turn around and explaining that we didn’t have to go down if I wasn’t comfortable with it. Considering I am a pretty protective mom I pondered, analyzed and examined the slope.
I decided to go for it.
1. I wanted to see the slot canyon I saw pictures of that looked awesome.
2. I was pumped with adrenaline and wanted to make the attempt.
3. J-man was all for it, not scared a bit, and I figured it would be a good experience for him.
We very sloooooowly took our first steps.
I repeated over and over to J-Man…
“Baby Steps.”
“Slowly.”
“I want you to concentrate. Watch where your feet are going and listen to what I say.”
“Baby steps.”
“Good job!”
“You’re doing great!”
“Slowly.”
“Very slowly.”
“Baby steps.”
We then got to a portion of the slope where some enormous roots came out of the ground and made their way almost to the bottom of the slope. The roots were large in diameter and strong enough to hold J-Man’s weight. (We certainly tested them out first).
I sat him on the largest root, held him while he slid down and BAM we made it to the bottom. Safely that is.
Positioning J-Man on the long root for the slide down.
Helping J-Man slide down.
Confirming my next move.
Off the root and slowly making our way down.
We made it!
I was so proud of J-Man for listening intently and doing exactly what was asked of him. He was proud of himself for his accomplishment.
As we made our way to the slot canyon with our nerves still in tack but a bit shaky we were met with a slot canyon full of water. Water thigh high (according to our measurement with a long stick) and impassable. Bedge was hoping the water would be frozen. Unfortunately, not.
Slot Canyon!
Too much water
We had a snack, took some photos and J-Man played with his toys in the sand before we made our way back up.
Bedge and J-Man photographing striped ice.
Little dead skunk up on a ledge.
Time to make our way back up.
The saying usually goes…don’t go up something you can’t come down. In this case, don’t go down something you can’t go up. Although we made it to the top I certainly would not have been able to do it without Bedges help. Going up was much more difficult than going down. As we were going up we spotted anchors. Apparently, most people repel down the slope. Ooops.
On our way back to the car, down the simple slickrock hillside, Bedge and I discussed our little adventure. We are pretty sure J-Man is the only 3.5 year old that has been to that slot canyon and that poses the question…
Was it child endangerment to take him on such a risky hike or was it just another Edge adventure?
What do you think? Were we putting J-Man at risk? Would you have taken your tyke down the slope?
No need to call protective services. J-Man is truly safe with us.
P.S. Sorry about the blurry pictures. Took a brand new camera on this trip that was horrible. It got returned when we got home.





















Totally would have done it too….baby steps IS the way to go and makes big things manageable. Plus, I think you are teaching your child a great lesson (and practicing for yourself) some great perseverance. And you all were safe!
(so I won’t make “the call”
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Thanks! I totally agree it was a great lesson on so many levels. Teaching J-Man his abilities, how to listen intently, what is considered dangerous and why and so on… Thanks for sharing!
That looks like a blast, That is totally an adventure that I want to take M on. You did it carefully, with forethought of your abilities and experience. Congrats and I can’t wait to see your next experience.
Thanks! It was a lot of fun. Who knows what the next experience will be?
I remember the first time we had instructions like those (a dotted line pointing to a spot that looks like every other spot on the horizon) when we went to The Wave outside of Kanab. Definitely adds to the adventure!
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with doing research and deciding that a certain hike or excursion is too much for a little one, BUT in life sometimes we come up on things we were not expecting and it’s a good lesson to learn to push on, rather than letting fear take over and make our decisions for us. We would have done the same thing you did! But, you’re right, going back up would have been daunting…
Oh man, The Wave is on my bucket list. Bedge has been there but I haven’t, yet. I have learned when it is a good time to push through my fears and when I really need to listen to them. I feel like we do take some risks with J-man but they are never above our abilities. Thanks for sharing!
Looks like a great trip! And I LOVE the picture of Bedge and Jman both taking a picture together
In your case or anyone who else who is capable, of course it’s not child endangerment. There’s plenty of morons that definitely wouldn’t be able to do what you did and probably too stupid to realize they can’t and that would be child endangerment.
But I probably would’ve done it with my kids after assessing the slope and possible dangers. We love adventure
That pic of Bedge and J-Man is one of my favorites. He loves being daddy’s shadow. It’s so cute! We need to take the kids on an adventure together.
I always love to see kids out hiking, and you were clearly being careful. Teaching kids to love the outdoors is the best hope for their physical and mental well being and for preserving the beautiful wild places on this planet. Thank you!
I definitely agree with you. That’s why it is so important to us to share these experiences with J-Man. It is paying off when he comes home from preschool asking to go hiking or camping.
Thanks for commenting.
To me child endangerment is parking your kid in front of the TV with a bag of cheetos and can of Mountain Dew for the day. Experienced outdoor parents know when to call it a day, pack it in and head to the nearest ice cream shop. If he would have been out there with unprepared and inexperienced parents during a rainstorm I might have a different opinion!
Great post! Looks like something we would undertake, so I definitely would have taken the kiddos down the slope. We are all about adventure. Sometimes, that means taking risks
I agree with most everyone one here…definitely not child endangerment…at least of the kind you are referring. You know us, we’d have done it…with three kids
Looks like a fun trip to me! Not endangerment at all. Great pics!
Great post! I only just found your site and am thrilled to have done so! My 10-year-old and I have spent the last year tackling mountains in the Whites (www.52withaview.com) and I only wish I could have started her earlier. That’s the way to do it – go prepared, take small steps, don’t rush, be encouraging and get the heck out of there if your gut tells you it’s too much. Being a blob in front of the TV is way more dangerous if you asked me. Anyway, glad to have found your site, keep going!
Thanks so much and thanks for the link to your site. I will check it out. I believe starting them young sets the foundation for a love of the outdoors. Thanks for sharing!